The Value of a Funeral
Posted on December 17, 2024 by | Leave a comment
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As a licensed funeral director of 25 years, a phrase I often hear repeated is, “Just throw me in a pine box and bury me in the backyard!” I’ve heard this phrase too many times to count, especially from men. But when we engage in further conversation, I find that what the person really means […]
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What is Aftercare?
Posted on June 4, 2024 by | Leave a comment
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The term “aftercare” is used within the funeral profession to refer to the continued support and guidance received in the days, weeks, and months following the death of a loved one. Our assistance does not immediately come to an end following the funeral or memorial service – we continue to help and guide you in […]
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Is Black My Only Option?
Posted on January 30, 2024 by | Leave a comment
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As a licensed funeral director, I’m often asked, “Do I have to wear black to a funeral?” The answer is, no, black is not the only acceptable color to wear to a funeral or memorial service. There are, however, certain recommendations of etiquette to follow when selecting an outfit. I came across a wonderful article […]
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Pallbearer: An Honor and a Privilege
Posted on August 2, 2023 by | Leave a comment
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The term “pallbearer” comes from the Catholic faith. A pall is a cloth that covers the casket during a funeral mass. Regardless of whether the casket is modest or elaborate, the pall signifies that all are equal before God. The pallbearers’ responsibility is to carry the casket when needed, such as in and out of […]
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Should Funeral Processions be Outlawed?
Posted on May 3, 2023 by | Leave a comment
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The following is an online quote that I once read: “I’ve never understood the reasons behind the funeral procession. Anyone who’s spent any time driving has been caught by one. They’re hard to miss. A long line of cars with orange flags flying, their headlights on and their emergency flashers blinking. They run every light […]
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